Ever felt like getting blamed for something that's not your doing? Living in a double-storey house with 5 other housemates, it's hard to avoid misunderstanding. Let's have a scenario here. What if, whenever something gone wrong, you're the first to be blamed for being at one place at the wrong time? How does that make u feel huh?
A night that was intended to be a night out where a new novel is waiting at the bookstore to be bought (finally!) had turned out to be a night of vengeance. Or should i say - a case of misunderstanding. Do you have a friend who claimed that they have EQs higher than others?? Well, i have one. One that just stays across the hall from my room. I was told many times that he have got a high threshold of patience.
Remembering this, it got me wondered. Does kicking things around the house after being disturbed by a courier count as a sign of high patience? Does shouting for no reason when the internet line is lag an act of patience? The latest - does lashing at someone cause the intended person that you called did not answer your phone cause it was in mute mode consider you as a person of ample patience? I dun think so.
The real patience is for being to withstand a person singing around the house all the time when they think that it's annoying. Wait. We're not supposed to do that too. Why? Cause someone is a very sensitive person too. Does it not count as patience when some1 in the room have to stand up for the singing during shower time be it in the middle of the night? I think the neighbors have more patience than we give them credit to.
The funny thing is, whenever somebody did something wrong, they wont admit that they did. Instead, they feel that they are right all the time. I shud know cause i'm good at this. I used to be those that always think that i'm right when i know it's not. But then, it seems the wheel has turned this time around. I'm always blamed for whatever that's not my fault and it seems to be taking a habit. What's worse, most of the people thought that a simple sorry will do it. Maybe they shud try how it felt when the scenario actually strikes them.
p/s: People, pls use your brain to think before you speak instead of using your ass. If you are as clever as you claimed to be, then, you shud understand this. A simple sorry will never do it. Once the harm's done, it's done.
A night that was intended to be a night out where a new novel is waiting at the bookstore to be bought (finally!) had turned out to be a night of vengeance. Or should i say - a case of misunderstanding. Do you have a friend who claimed that they have EQs higher than others?? Well, i have one. One that just stays across the hall from my room. I was told many times that he have got a high threshold of patience.
Remembering this, it got me wondered. Does kicking things around the house after being disturbed by a courier count as a sign of high patience? Does shouting for no reason when the internet line is lag an act of patience? The latest - does lashing at someone cause the intended person that you called did not answer your phone cause it was in mute mode consider you as a person of ample patience? I dun think so.
The real patience is for being to withstand a person singing around the house all the time when they think that it's annoying. Wait. We're not supposed to do that too. Why? Cause someone is a very sensitive person too. Does it not count as patience when some1 in the room have to stand up for the singing during shower time be it in the middle of the night? I think the neighbors have more patience than we give them credit to.
The funny thing is, whenever somebody did something wrong, they wont admit that they did. Instead, they feel that they are right all the time. I shud know cause i'm good at this. I used to be those that always think that i'm right when i know it's not. But then, it seems the wheel has turned this time around. I'm always blamed for whatever that's not my fault and it seems to be taking a habit. What's worse, most of the people thought that a simple sorry will do it. Maybe they shud try how it felt when the scenario actually strikes them.
p/s: People, pls use your brain to think before you speak instead of using your ass. If you are as clever as you claimed to be, then, you shud understand this. A simple sorry will never do it. Once the harm's done, it's done.
1 comment:
Oh for god sake!!! clever people do not prevail, smart people does. So much for being a clever hi-EQ person huh? i bet there was something wrong wif the EQ test. ha! hang in there!
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